Escorts number found on partners phone

[Olivasand]

Been a couple of months since my last post. In between that post and 2 days ago, my partner was not living with me, he was in hotels but he remained in daily contact with me, asking to come back. After all this time and some very stressful weeks, I agreed and he came back yesterday.
Yes I checked his phone, because I have been through such a hard time with this.
I have now found a number in his contacts who's name looked new. When I googled it, it turns out to be for an escort.
I don't know if this is an actual woman he would meet in person or whether it's phone stuff. I am so disappointed and feels like it did when I found the other texts. I was hoping he was asking to come back to me because he wants me.
Doesn't look that way?

Run for the fucking hills and do not look back .

He's a player - he's learnt nothing! Your a convenience. Kick him to the kerb and respect yourself. Move on .

Thank you for your message.
I am gutted and distraut all over again.

So sorry x but if he hasn't changed from the experience of being apart- he isn't going to change lovely .

Move on- you definitely do deserve better than this x

I’d imagine living in hotels would get very expensive. Not terribly convenient either after a while, clothes washing facilities etc. It’s no wonder he wanted to come home really 😤 Kick him the heck back out OP. Do not even think of tolerating this, he’s clearly not trustworthy. 💐

Olivasand, I recall your previous threads about this cheating, abusive horror of a man.

He thrives on putting you down, humiliating you in private/public, calling you a stupid cunt, and telling you to fuck off. He says you deserve his abuse. The worse he treats you, the tighter you cling, and say you’ll do better. Your sadistic mother normalized verbal/emotional abuse in your early years, so trauma is familiar to you.

In the one year you were with him, he proved to be poisonous and vicious. I had hoped that you’d ended the relationship and completely cut him off in September, but I see that he’s been hoovering you.

Olivasand, are you really surprised that this abusive cheat is buying women’s bodies? Please, please stop sabotaging your life and get rid of this malignant man once and for all. You deserve a relationship based on kindness, respect, honesty and fidelity.

If this were "just" a case of cheating and he was genuinely repentant and willing to do anything to try to save the relationship and rebuild trust - ANYTHING, including couples therapy, including accepting that the process could take years and there are no guarantees, including being patient with you while you work through your anger and disappointment, including being completely transparent in the meantime and being open with you about where he is and with whom at all times and letting you check up on him if that's what you need - THEN perhaps the relationship could be salvaged. It's a very hard thing for anyone to do, even a genuinely decent person who's made one mistake and deeply regrets it.

But based on your past posts, this fellow was lying to you for ages and routinely verbally abusing you every time you asked him a question about his activities, and then telling you you deserved to be abused. He'd have had to have had a complete personality transplant to have any hope of ever being a good partner to you and even then, it would be hard to get over the pain of his past behaviour.

I don't know how he convinced you he's changed so dramatically that you were willing to give him another chance, but unfortunately he hasn't, and now you know for sure.

He was getting me doing his washing until I said no more.

Thank you so much for your message.
He has been able to make me feel worthless. I have asked him about it now. Says it was just a phone call, and asked her for a photo. I still feel extremely used and my self esteem has been brought down to zero.