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Leave ? Or keep trying. Anyone been through similar

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Stacey78957 · 01/11/2022 15:18

Honestly, don’t even know where to start. Been with my partner 3 years. He’s great, can’t fault him in so many ways except I think he’s been so disrespectful on serval occasions involving other women. Never physically cheated that I am aware of but based on social media, you could say he’s maybe tried to get the attention of others who are very much the opposite looking “ type “ from me. These girls you could put in the one bracket of being very similar looking. This has caused me so much hurt, damaged my self esteem massively, and just left our relationship pretty damaged. I am aware alot of my feeling are based on past experiences and self confidence issues. However, up until discovering all of this, we were so happy, I had full trust in him, never worried. Now his phone goes, or he’s away and I’m left with constant dread of what he’s doing, thinking he will go further and eventually cheat. I want to be with him, but I don’t know how to fix it ? How do you trust someone when they have broken it ? Is that even possible, I’m beginning to feel it isn’t. Anyone experienced similar and worked through it ? And how ? Any advice would be great.

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oobeedoobee · 01/11/2022 15:45

Once the trust is gone, there's really no way to get it back, especially if he's not even trying to get your trust back.

You don't say what he's said about 'trying to get the attention of other women' ?
Have you even had a discussion about this ?
And did he try to 'defend' himself, or was he 'apologetic' ?

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