So 2014 I met a man, causal relationship texting regularly. Meeting every few months! Went until 2017. He said he wanted to see me more once he had got back from Devon where he had been working for 6 months. Bought me some nice shoes and then that was it he was gone! Nothing! no communication what so ever.
Fast forward to January 2022 and I get a message from him. All those feelings came back. Instant attraction started to take over! We chatted and met! He shared he was actually married when we were seeing each other. 4 children 2 of which were conceived while we were hooking up. 2 older ones not his.
I was shocked! He explained his ex had a drug issue and in 2019 he moved out no longer able to cope. He would have his children fridays through to Sunday. We chatted daily he shared images of family life with me. We would spend evenings together. We even planned a week away together. Everything was like it was before. We hooked up a couple times a month. Just like our relationship was before. Then one night when we were in the throws of sex he said he loved me! I was taken aback never expected that to happen.
And after that night he has not contacted me again. I'm trying to move on its been 2 months I feel like I have made a mistake! I struggle to concentrate wondering what's gone on!
Advice please