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I think my husband seen an escort ?

7 replies

emmasmith4321 · 30/10/2022 07:03

So my husband accidentally but dialled my phone and left me voicemail while he was at work with his colleague , I can’t make out 100 percent but the words I can hear are something about
>>>wh*re house / €70 Euros / 10 days 10 nights / then a sentence that I can understand that says massive balcony , porches Ferraris outside ,fell asleep in there and I woke up ,lad woke me up no shower no shirt on ,gave me these clothes that I’m wearing , <<<<<<
so that was what I’ve heard , a few years ago he worked in Germany and it’s famous for fkk brothel houses that are like big Mansions with swimming pools outside , so I’m 33 been married 10 years have 2 children one is 10 the other is 2 , they have a lovely family life we all do , thing is and please don’t judge me but I can’t leave him I can’t cope on my own ,it’s a long story but I can’t , so if I let him know I know will he think he can get away with it because I will still stay or do I confront him and hope I’ve totally heard it wrong ? I really don’t know what to do

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ChrisTrepidation · 30/10/2022 07:11

I'm so sorry. He already know he can get away with it because he HAS been getting away with it.

Why can't you leave? You deserve better than to live your life with such a man.

ChrisTrepidation · 30/10/2022 07:12

If you confront him he will lie, minimise and gaslight you. All such men do when they are caught out.

Sniffypete · 30/10/2022 07:20

You can cope on your own. He's probably just worn you down so much that you don't believe it, but you can and you will cope. You'll do it for your children's sakes.

Ihatethissituation · 30/10/2022 07:21

Can you remember a time he has returned home in someone else's clothes?

ExtraJalapenos · 30/10/2022 07:36

Leave him. You'll cope.

SittingCat · 30/10/2022 07:56

I'm fairly certain that anyone saying 'leave him' when presented with this shoddy evidence is more consumed with their own opinions about men rather than your best interests.

Lovefilms · 30/10/2022 09:07

I agree with SittingCat . Have you more evidence ?

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