Hi all, I am hoping to get a bit of advice really. I found some messages from another woman on my DP's phone. It was in archived section and 'muted' so it wouldn't pop up on his phone when he got a message. All very secretive. Her name wasn't even saved. I looked at the messages and all I managed to see what 'hello amazing her name xxxxxx' and then he had sent her photos of our 3 month old daughter? I don't know who this woman is so this is the part I can't deal with.
I asked him and he said it's someone he was speaking to when we had a break 3 years ago (we were going through a bad time but since being back together I thought we had been in a much better place) She was single and so was he. He tells me he never met her, not sure if I believe that. I said why are you still talking if back with me and she is also in a new relationship.
He snatched the phone off me and then I asked 'who it was' he said just a friend....
That's all I managed to see before he deleted the WhatsApp thread of messages. I regret not scrolling through more. The last message was sent yesterday. We were also away on a family holiday when I found these messages! I don't know whether to be angry he deleted the messages before I even was able to take a look and make a decision myself or the fact he's been sending photos of my daughter to someone I don't even know!!
It's all one big mess and I don't know whether to let this one go or contact the woman as I have found her Facebook and ask what has been going on?