Just friends

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I'm hoping I'm not alone in this but I do feel like it. DH & I have a 2 year old child. He's never been a good sleeper & even before he was born we slept in separate rooms due to DH's awful snoring.
Since we had our son I feel like we're just friends. We are both seriously sleep deprived & don't have any baby sitters so don't get much torn together.
We don't have sex, it's not just because we don't have time, I literally have no interest in it at all. He's a brilliant Dad & I love our little family but the relationship has changed.
Is this normal & can we come back from it?

Honestly? I couldn't live in a sexless marriage. My husband and I have a 3 y/o also still terrible with sleep and I'm pregnant but we still want sex with each other weekly. I don't think its normal, as harsh as that sounds

I think this is incredibly common after having a child, but not normal in a healthy relationship. Can you try and find ways to connect? I know it’s hard without babysitting (we’re in a similar position) but can you do some things together at home in the evenings, once your DC is in bed? Something that helps you bond as a couple. Once you re-establish some emotional intimacy, the physical intimacy may naturally follow.

How does he feel about it?

Thanks all for your replies. Honesty is good I say! I have arranged a date night for a few weeks time which I'm looking forward to.
DH is quite laid back but does question the lack of intimacy, which is understandable I think.

Snoring can be a huge problem, especially when it's causing you to sleep separately.
Have you looked into addressing it at all and seeking medical advice?

It doesn't sound good but it does sound like there is an opportunity to rectify it, or at least try to. Don't get me wrong, the upcoming date sounds great, but I don't think an occasional date is going to make much of a change. Are you able to do something 'special' one night a week once your baby goes to sleep? Takeaway, drinks, home made cocktails? Unwind and re-connect. Something to look forward to each week.