Does he love her aswell!

[concerned39]

My Husband has been having an on off affair with another woman. He breaks it "off" for a little while when I've found out but he always goes back to her even though he said he will not. He is always watching her. She's local and passes us often so I've caught him.. he also speaks highly of her and often puts me down.

Does he love her, Is he in love with the both of us? Are we both as ridiculous as each other for accepting his behaviours?

@concerned39

As sad as I am for you and children.

Let him go don't let him walk around like love sick puppy.

He probably has got feelings or fallen as painful as it is let him go.

Call her up say she won she can have him. You seek solicitor if married sorry didn't read if you was or not.

How are you getting on?

Of course he's not in love with her. He's always going to be wanting the one he doesn't have. If you get rid of him and he goes to her, give it a few months and he'll be pining for you again.
Just keep telling yourself that he's not a real man. He's an entitled little boy. Nobody wants an entitled little boy in their bed now, do they!