So my newly ex partner who I have been with 15 years has a property in Birmingham which he has been renovating/renting out
we have a 10 year old daughter and I am 5 months pregnant.
He goes up there from London most weekends and stays with me during the week
last Sunday at 4am in the morning his phone was ringing, I answered it and it was a northern girl who said he’s been f**king girls up there every weekend.
I messaged her on my phone she said she’s been seeing him for 7 months (we were actively ttc within this time) and she forwarded his tinder profile to me.
I’ve taking his stuff back to his mums but I’m so hurt. He wasn’t a great boyfriend but I think I was manipulated by him and have such low self esteem hence why I stayed for so long, he wouldn’t even touch me sorry tmi. It was just intercourse wouldn’t be fb friend. There was so many signs but I was so in love with him and in denial now worried and sad about the situation and want to know how to build my confidence back