Hi All,
It's been a long time since I've looked for advice on here, so please be kind.
A few weeks ago my long term bf of over 10 years sprung upon me that he wasn't feeling the same way anymore and thinks we should no longer be together.
We had became a bit more distant the last few months but I put it down to work load and the stress of parent hood etc.
There been no arguments, disagreements etc. We have one child together And he has one from previous relationship.
We agreed to try and make an effort to go on a few more date nights etc See if we can start to feel a bit more 'normal' but it's not helping.
Long story short I'm head over heels still in love with him and cannot imagine my life without him, I moved my life away from family and friends to be with him all those years ago and now he stays he doesn't want to be with me.
It's a major blow I've not stopped crying I can't imagine moving back to where my family is and cause that upset to my child and then I can't see staying and not being with him
I feel like he's given up too easy everyone goes through spells and this is honestly our first spell of feeling drifting apart and our time together and family is worth the fight.
Do we try to rebuild the relationship?
I have no idea how to even respond to him.