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MimiBeee · 24/10/2022 22:01

It's hard to write everything ! I need to leave my mentally abusive and angry husband . We have young children and I'm currently 30 weeks pregnant . I've had zero support in pregnancy , I do all house and children all by myself . We have a disabled son who I deal with completely alone . I feel so low and the only thing keeping me is my children .
he earns the money and we are not on any benefits . I want to leave but I don't know where to start or if I can because I am financially dependent on him . I feel trapped .

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SummerWhisper · 24/10/2022 23:28

Firstly, congratulations on your pregnancy, although you may not feel like being joyful about it when living in a DV situation. He's yoyr husband, so there will be marital assets such as the home or savings, even if he considers them as his. You also earned his money by bringing up his children. Ideally, you should book a free consultation with a solicitor, but firstly, ask Women's Aid for as much support and advice as possible. There is a way out for you, so try to find all the financial information, your passports and other important documents. Women's Aid will give you all the best and safest advice. You can do this and your children will have a much better life. Sending you a big hug and wishing you strength💐💐

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