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AIBU to think my friends are low key taking the mickey

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Mazzatron · 23/10/2022 18:01

I'm in a WhatsApp group with two friends, we talk p much daily. It's a very supportive group but I've started thinking they are sometimes taking the mickey out of me, the way that I text / talk. I've noticed them using phrases / spellings they wouldn't usually use that I use, but it's kind of incongruent when they use them, usually when I'm explaining something. I don't know if I'm being completely mental / paranoid though. I don't know why I feel like this? They are lovely and supportive ultimately. I just have a sense something is a bit off. Unsure if I should say something but wtf would I say.
Has anyone else experienced low key belittling or mickey taking like this ? Is it a thing?

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Tsort · 23/10/2022 18:03

Give a few examples of the sort of thing you mean.

Mazzatron · 23/10/2022 18:10

Honestly it sounds so petty but elongating words, and using expressions I use like "oh maaaaan" and "jeez" which they would not usually say. So it feels like they are saying it to make each other laugh behind my back ? They are v intelligent and eloquent, more so than me. There are a few other things but they actually look on here so I don't want to put everything down

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vincettenoir · 23/10/2022 18:15

It’s not uncommon for friends to mimic each other unconsciously. And in particular ‘jeez’ is fairly common vernacular, that a lot of people use.

I don’t know enough about your friends to form a judgment but I would try to give them the benefit of the doubt.

Soproudoflionesses · 23/10/2022 18:43

My friend calls everyone babes and l sometimes take the pee out of her for it but it is not in a nasty way - l love the fact she calls me that just not something l have ever done myself - maybe they see it as a nice thing

Ptinklr · 23/10/2022 19:01

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DucklingDaisy · 23/10/2022 19:36

It’s really hard to judge without seeing the full context, but from what you’re saying it does sound plausible it’s mocking.

Toebeams · 23/10/2022 19:57

I think you may be being a little bit paranoid and sensitive. I use similar terms in some of my WhatsApp groups and I would never utter the words out loud - things such as 'thanks babe' etc. I don't think I've ever used the word babe other than to talk about the talking pig!!

figtrees · 23/10/2022 20:49

I think you're being paranoid. I often accidentally pick up a phrase I heard somewhere else, and repeat it. It's probably that. Also those are very common words.

Mazzatron · 23/10/2022 21:36

Ok kind of relieved (I think?!) to hear most think that I'm being over sensitive and paranoid and they might be doing it in a fond way, if they are even aware they are doing it at all. Thank you. Now the question is why am I like this?! (Rhetorical)

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TheCurseOfBoris · 23/10/2022 23:58

I'd be annoyed if someone parroted my writing style and would absolutely think they were taking the piss, especially as there's two of them.

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