My husband’s ex is harassing me…

[Laura0607]

It has been a long time that my husband’s ex is harassing me.

She keeps writing me / telling me that my husband is asking her for s.. ( the reason why we still see her is that my husband has got children with her)(my husband has already blocked her because he can speak straight to children as they have a phone now)
she has been going very deep into my family trying to interfere to my children too (including school, social care, learning her kids to bully mine) all sort of things

I tried to ignore all of that but when she keep repeating the same thing over and over I feel I just want to knock her out.

I am really feed up of her. What do you suggest?!?!

Block her too?

Speak to the police. It’s harassment.

Block maybe? Just a thought

Yes but we still see her face to face because of children

I would talk to the police. This is criminal behaviour on her part.

Is she telling you your dh is asking for sex?

"Oh that's nice dear"

And yes - you can block her so that she can’t write to you. Start there.

But you don't have to have any contact at all with her. Leave it to your husband to communicate and do handovers. That's what most people do.

You really don’t have to have contact with her, let your H deal with her. Keep a record of her antics and report her to the Police.

I'd send her one message, telling her she's harassing you and if it continues, or the bullying of your children continues, you will go straight to the police with detailed notes you're taking. Then I'd block her. Ask any family members to block her also so that she can't harass them.

You dont have to see her face to face though? If The children are old enough to communicate through them not mum they can take themselves to and from the houses surely?

How sure are you that he isn’t, indeed, pestering her for sex?

He is the coparent. You don't have to speak to her.