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Cheating and betrayal

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Tina555 · 18/10/2022 01:35

I really need some help, I’m 35 years old and my partner of 5 years which I planned a life with has recently “needed space” which has resulted in him leaving me and finding out myself that our holiday in January has had the names swapped to another girl the day after he wanted to leave me.

Im broken…we have a house together with two dogs. Im currently living in this house, while he is at his mums and he wants to sell the house straight away. He seems like a robot with no emotion, no sympathy about what he has done to me, this isn’t the man I’ve loved for 5 years. I’ve got no where to live especially with a dog, my whole life plan is in shatters. We were fine before he left, he told me he loved me everyday so this has come out of no where.

He’s clearly going to move on with this other girl he cheated on me with and I’m left picking up the pieces of my life. I’m 35 and we were planning on having children next year so I’m also worried about my age, meeting someone and not being able to have children.

Any advice would be much appreciated.

OP posts:
dontputitthere · 19/10/2022 16:01

Honestly I know it doesn't feel like it now but it's the best thing that could've happened.

It's not too late to have kids. Rebuild your life. Meet someone worthy of you

He's shown himself to be a slime ball. Rather now than when tied financially or even worse with kids in tow Flowers

CrispyNoodles · 19/10/2022 19:14

@Tina555 this woman must be ultra amazing for him to change like this.

No, he hasn't changed.

This explains why - natashaadamo.com/is-my-ex-happy-in-his-new-relationship/

Tina555 · 19/10/2022 20:00

Thank you @CrispyNoodles that blog was really good. I’m doing better today just angry and disgusted and still blocked.

OP posts:
Tigertealeaves · 19/10/2022 20:45

OP, I met my partner when I was 35, after recovering from an extremely traumatic breakup situation. Had our DC at 38. Now 41 with a lovely blended family. Lots of people do it.

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