He went back to the woman he said means nothing

[anotherfuture]

He told me nothing happened they were just talking and I found out today that one year on it's still her he is taking to.

Need more context op for you to get proper advice x

One year ago I found messages from another woman in my H mobile phone he told me it was nothing just chatting. " she made him feel heard". She told me the same also it was just a conversation here and there"

Today I find out through a friend they are still talking and well now I think it maybe more. He has cheated before.

@anotherfuture, you wrote in August that he’s been a serial cheat. You separated for 2 years and then reunited, but his faithless behavior has now resumed. It sounds like he’s been at it again for at least a year. He clearly prioritizes chasing illicit thrills.

Instead of appreciating the new chance you gave him, he has thrown it back in your face. He hasn’t changed and never will. Isn’t it time to stop flogging this dead horse?

I'm very sorry you have again been dissapointed by this man who has placed sexual gratification and his ego above all else.

Time to draw a line in the sand and dispose him to the past.

I hope you heal.

I'm so sorry @anotherfuture but this man is a serial cheat who is constantly in the look out for ego stroking from other women. He will not change.

He has seen you broken and it has not been enough to stop his relentless behaviour.

It's time to put your safety first as this man will never be safe for you.

There comes a point where you need to accept he'll never be the husband you deserve.