House gone on the market

[EmmaMarie18]

Well our house went on the market today and I don't know why I've got such mixed emotions

Part of me I'm relieved and just want it sold now but then another part of me feels so sad and emotional 😔

I know now our relationship is 100% over and there's no going back! But when I actually sit and think he's been an absolute narcissist controlling t*%t for years

It's just so hard 😔 I'm the one left to clean and pack the house up (not touching his stuff) just can't wait to get from here

Just wish I didn't feel so up and down

Sorry that this is happening to you too. I sorted mine two years ago, and at the time, it was hard. Looking back, best thing ever. Let him sort his own stuff! Concentrate on you and what makes you happy now..hugs

The sale of your shared home is very final isn't it... and a big move. No matter how much of an arse he was, i can see why this would pull at your heart strings. It IS sad... but it will pass and you, like so many others, will look back and realise it was the best thing you ever did for yourself. Xx

Thank you so much both..think it was the initial upset of seeing it online 😔

I'm keeping everything crossed it don't stay up for sale for long 🤞🏻

It's giving me the drive though to get things packed, dumped up the tip and de-cluttered tho lol

It's so final but when I think of all the things he's done to me I know me and my babies will be soooooo much better off without his toxic controlling ways just gotta take it day by day now