DH is always always always late. He has a job where it's a set number of hours per day (7.5) plus half hour each end of the day travel and half hour lunch break. So his working day should be 9 hours. Whether he leaves at 6,7,8,9am etc, he never manages to finish on time. He always goes above and beyond with work, and always ends up helping others out, or just getting involved in stuff which takes time. He procrastinates and takes ages with some stuff. He's not massively over loaded at work, he just seems to create work to do 🤷🏻♀️
But it really pisses me off. Today he was meant for be home 3:30 because he left early so he could get home to do some work on the house before our toddler gets home from daycare. This was his idea as we are desperately trying to get something finished in the house - We're due another baby soon etc. But he won't be home until 5. Yes he'll get TOIL but I'd rather he just came home when he said he would! So today is another hour and half lost where time is so precious.
I've obviously talked fo him before about this, but it doesn't seem to matter what I say, he doesn't change.
Just not really sure how to manage this really and how not to feel losses off every bloody day!
Rant over!!