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Scared his cheated

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Lily189 · 09/10/2022 14:30

Hi everyone on friday me and my fiance had a drink we had a stupid argument and he left and went stayed in his house (he lives with me but has kept his own house we stay there now and again)

He blocked me on everything so I couldnt contact him and I didnt hear from him at all he left around midnight didnt come home until 1pm the next day when he apologised

I couldnt help myself and looked through his phone when he was asleep
There was nothing I could see but one thing has me overthinking he has deleted his what's app of his phone weve been together 5 years and hes always had it
Its linked to his old mobile number and I'm wondering if hes text somone on it and that's only way they have contact him and hes scared that I'll see

Ano it might be nothing but I cant shake this weird feeling hes never deleted it before and his never blocked me before when weve argued

What would u think I cant ask because hell know i was in his phone
What would u do

All advice be great tia

OP posts:
Tsort · 09/10/2022 14:50

What was the argument about?

Lily189 · 09/10/2022 14:58

Just a silly argument over the kids

OP posts:
Tsort · 09/10/2022 15:00

The kids? As in, mutual children that you have together?

something2say · 09/10/2022 15:04

I would not worry about cheating. I'd focus on getting back to love if possible. Build trust and confidence.

Lily189 · 09/10/2022 15:05

Yes

OP posts:
girlmom21 · 09/10/2022 15:11

Does he normally leave when you argue or is this unusual behaviour?

Lily189 · 09/10/2022 16:57

Sometimes he does but its first hes blocked me and hes never deleted his what's app

OP posts:
Tsort · 09/10/2022 17:04

So, after silly arguments, this man regularly leaves you and your (mutual) children in the family home you share and goes to stay in ‘his house’?

You must know that’s not okay, OP? That’s not how committed relationships work, particularly those with children.

You have no reason to think he’s cheated, in my opinion. And the fact that you’re so casual about going through his phone is a bit worrying. However, my main takeaway is that the relationship dynamic sounds pretty dysfunctional and you’d be best placed addressing that.

girlmom21 · 09/10/2022 19:07

Yeah I agree its actually irrelevant why he blocked you. This relationship sounds shit.

Wibbli · 09/10/2022 19:20

You both need to grow up. What a sad example to show your children.

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