Back story. I have one dc from a previous relationship. I was financially ok. We got by. Met dp .Moved in with him 2 years ago after being together for 1.5 years. I stupidly gave up my house. Had child with dp. Dp stands for dickhead partner . Dp refused point blank to put my name on the house when I asked for a some of security. His reasoning ‘we will be married one day’ . So instead of paying towards the mortgage I have contributed to the household by paying for oil, electric, the groceries, all child related things. I decorated and furnished the house as it was pretty much a bachelor pad, cold and not very homely when we moved in. This wiped out my savings. Every single argument dp and I have ever had has resulted in him using the house against me. Tells me to get out of his house. When it’s got bad it’s me who has had to leave with the children. I stay at my aunts house who lives nearby. It’s all came to a head. Dp has said he wants me out of his house. He has told me to put all my things in storage until i find somewhere as he wants to buy new furniture and kit the house out. I work. Minimum wage. I rely on dp for childcare. He is self employed works 3-4 days a week. I can’t go through the proper channels for child support as his brother is an accountant and together they fiddle. He has said he will help me get a house pay the deposit and a months rent. I suspect another women but that’s the least of my worries . Our relationship has not been great lately but I feel like I’m just being discarded like a dirty nappy and starting all over again. I will be worse off than I was before he came along and this makes me feel very bitter . He has also announced that when we move out he will be having our dc 3 over night stays a week. I do not want to be away from my child for 3 nights. I have concerns about this also as he likes a drink and on occasion Iv had to ring in sick to work because he has not been fit to look after our child. I guess my post is just for some advice or has anyone ever been in a similar situ?