Ok long story but 3 months ago I met an amazing guy had a few social dates first then the first time I went to his we ended up sitting up all night and just talking and had a great connection, Any way things are going well but then we hit a bump as it started being we talking more than we had sex and he has a female friend who i was fine with and he said that they ever spent the night together they would end up talking like we did, he has also made some comments about my lack of confidence too he wants a woman that acts like a total nympho then a few days later he showed me a message he received from a woman online and said he was being honest me and he wasn't interested in but he said because she's too far away so that combined with the above comments made me think that he wasn't happy with me and when I tried talking to him about he took it as me dumping him which I wasn't and I tried explaining that. Anyway after a week of not chatting and seeing each other he said he was hurt from being dumped I didn't say the words dumped or anything similar he jumped to conclusions and of course his female friend backed him up, he says we will try and get past it. He then started calling me his girlfriend and making plans for our weekends days out etc so I thought great and started suggesting things too, he then starts saying it's going to fast but in the meantime I also found out he has other female friends who just chat with him advice several times a week and he said he was going this weekend to see a friend in Dundee, he just so happens to a female friend in Dundee, I tried to be ok with all this because men and women can be friends but I couldn't help but feel he was keeping his options open because I wasn't being like a total nympho every time we met but it was hard to relax sometime because everything I said something he would jump on it and make me feel like everything I said I was wrong. Also right at the start he was messaging me saying how much he missed, he wanted me to his, he wished I lived next door then a few months in I make suggestions to spend more time together based on what he's being saying and suddenly its overwhelming and stressing him out, I also found him about little lies as well. It would be interesting to hear your thoughts about this because I haven't got a clue!!!