Hi everyone, so I have been with my partner for just over 2 years now, he's mid thirties and I am mid twenties, for the past few months (I would say onger) I have just been feeling so lonely and unhappy, we don't spend time together, we don't go out and do things together and we don't even have sex ( In the last year we have only had sex 3 times and the last time was coming up 8.5 months ago, I would also like to add he watches porn ). The past 2 months he has only stayed at mine 3 times and in total we have only spent 52 hours together ( I'm not including the time we are asleep as we are not actually spending time together) baring in mind he has had 20 days off of work during this time peirod and he only lives over the road from me, all he wants to do on his days off is smoke weed and play his ps4 (as he says he needs his own time and time to recharge), I have tried many times to communicate with him and about how I am feeling but it always gets dismissed, I just feel like I'm not a priority, I feel lonely, unsupported and definitely feel unattractive!.
Friday he said he would come and stay, so he finished work and come to mine, he was just moody and talking to me with disrespect, I told him there's no need to talk to me like that and he said do you just want me to go to mine... so I said I would if he is just going to be like that towards me so low and behold he left in a really crappy mood I then receive a text 2 minutes later saying he thinks we are both better off without out each other, I replied and said where has this suddenly come from... I didn't get a reply to this message and nor has he even bothered to contact me since leaving Friday night.
Please can you guys just give me your opinions and advice on what I should do now and moving forward ?