Acting like she don't know why

[Feeloverit]

I have stopped talking to a friend again that I grew up with. Had enough of her bs just fed up.

She was pretending we wasn't talking in front of her sister at an event in August. She basically blanked me like I was a no nobody. She moved near where I am. Had been messaging me online through social media. It was only when she needed something and I still kept her at a distance. But helped her with information about our area. Many people said she moved up where I am because of me. I don't need the drama. She very manipulative.

So this evening she messaged me why have I stopped talking to her and she knows why.

I can't with her no more and her bs and have been feeling so much better not talking to her.

Would you respond or ignore her?

Ignore. He message is to try to draw you into an argument. Block and move on.

Omg are you me? I had practically the same experience with my ex best friend earlier this year.

Treated me like absolute shite during a difficult time in my life so I stopped contact for a bit and she then pretended she didn't have a clue what was going on. Then she did but it was all my fault yada yada.

I would respond tbh as I think it's cruel to leave people in limbo but it won't be am easy conversation. She'll turn it all round on you. But if you want to cut ties I think you should tell her. Others will come along and say nobody is owed an explanation but it doesn't mean its not tye right thing to do if you've known her for years.

Then cut your ties

@Metabigot

She went through a difficult time but she someone you can't help. A lost cause tbh with you.
I can't handle her drama she which is long to go into.
I tried but she still the same and she seems worse now.
I didn't expect us to go back to be like before but don't pretend we don't talk to your family or friend at an event.
She moved near where I live and don't need all her drama. She doesn't really know anyone here but me.
I know she wants me for something and I don't care got my own stuff now.
Her situation very stressful you can't tell her anything.

I would respond tbh as I think it's cruel to leave people in limbo but it won't be am easy conversation. She'll turn it all round on you. But if you want to cut ties I think you should tell her. Others will come along and say nobody is owed an explanation but it doesn't mean its not tye right thing to do if you've known her for years.

Well this time she can't say someone turned me against her.
She knows why I am not talking to her she played dumb like she don't know. Because she lied and turned her sister against me and she made out she not talking to me. So thought you going to act like that then cool.
Where you decided to move to which is close to me away from her family and friends I pretend I don't know you. Those family and that friend you pretended we not talking to they can help you.
I need peace not headache.

So I responded saying I wasn't going to tell her what she did wrong as she already knows. She needed to understand why she does wrong why people stop talking to her.
She got very nasty and blocked which so happy about now been don't need her bs.

She manipulated her own children and she won't take responsibility for why she lost her children she got them back and this children are damaged. Put all the blame on their father such a nasty person..a lost cause no one can challenge she used mental health and now saying she got something wrong with and in wheelchair. All lies to manipulate the whole system.

Sorry for the rant but extremely over the moon she blocked me as I wasn't even talking to her and kept her at a distance.

I need to celebrate having my peace back.

Feel nothing like a big weight lifted now. She won't change and she not the sort of friend I want to have in my life anymore.

I just don't care no more

Thanks for advice