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Break down in relationship with parents

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frazzledGF · 04/10/2022 11:47

Hi all, looking for some words of wisdom and advice please. I (24F) am struggling with a situation and don't know where to turn.

My boyfriend (24M) and his family are really not getting along. It was always a fraught relationship but it has gotten so much worse, resulting in his parents confronting me, accusing him of all kinds, even physical fights with his dad.

I have moved back to my parents after uni and we have an agreement he can stay here 2 nights a week. After all it is their space and I want to be respectful. However, its come to the point where his parents have kicked him out and he has nowhere to stay. He has stayed at my parents for a few nights but its causing friction with them now.

Neither parties want to listen to each other and fix the relationship, they both feel like they need to was their hands of each other. I find this particularly upsetting as my relationship with my own parents is good and I can't ever imagine not wanting them in my life.

Does anyone have any advice please? Neither of us are currently in a position to rent anywhere for ourselves :( we both work full time but are without savings and the cost of energy means our salaries wouldn't get us anywhere.

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