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We don't see each other much

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Aprilshow · 03/10/2022 16:51

Last week I went away for a few days in the UK with a female friend. We had already planned this 2 months ago. I was still away the weekend and my boyfriend was seeing his daughters so I wouldn't have seen him anyway. He then said yesterday he wanted to see me last night but I was still away and was not going to rush back as he had seen his daughters on Saturday but his daughter wanted to see her boyfriend on Sunday so she cancelled on him.

Yesterday he said he wanted to go away next weekend with me but I told him it's my Dad's birthday. He said we could go for a meal midweek instead and he would come to my town. This morning he said we can Facetime this week which I thought was strange as we were going for a meal, it turns out he is going to a pub quiz but wants to support his friend for the first time meeting the quiz team.

An hour ago he wanted to Facetime me tonight but I already had plans to go bowling with my friends. I feel he is trying to get his own back and he feels I am avoiding him. This is not the case as after tomorrow I have lots of free time to see him but these things have all cropped up at once.

I'm really annoyed he cancelled meeting me mid week for his friend instead.

He works shifts so we have to make the most of the time we have free. A few weeks ago I didn't see him for 10 days due to his shifts and seeing his daughters, I don't have a problem with him seeing his daughters. I feel we are like passing ships in the night.

OP posts:
Shoxfordian · 03/10/2022 17:09

It seems like you need a joint calendar app and a bit more communication about your plans

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