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Miserable holidays ahead?

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Unforgettablehamster · 03/10/2022 00:34

My boyfriend of 1 year invited me to join him, his siblings and his adult child on a holiday abroad. I paid for my flights but the accommodation cost has been covered by my bf. I was really looking forward to spending time away in a beautiful place with him and to getting to know his family better. We are supposed to leave next week but he’s been so negative about going: he’s been saying to me that he doesn’t really get on with his siblings and that the place is expensive. He is not looking forward to going at all.
I feel that it’s not fair on me - what was the point of inviting me in the first place?
WWYD?

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QuitWhileAhead · 03/10/2022 00:55

That's really annoying of him. Is it somewhere nice? Can you make sure you have a list of day trips and things to do when you are there and let him know you are going to make sure you enjoy yourself even if he doesn't.

Mindymomo · 03/10/2022 06:45

Have you met any of the family yet. If he’s not wanting to spend all the time together, then he needs to suggest everyone do their own thing daytime and maybe meet up for dinner in the evening.

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