i absolutely adore/adored him at one point in my life. It sounds pathetic but I don’t have many friends and a horrendous mental health history so I was so pleased to have found someone that actually had something in common with me, and said they loved me. We are constantly on/off
When I was younger an ex boyfriend broke up with me the night before my birthday and threw me out of the house. It was 7 years ago and it still makes me hate birthdays.
Well, the first year me and current boyfriend were together I confided in him that it was the most hurtful thing that anyone has ever done to me. A few months later, the night before my birthday he ended the relationship. It was over an argument about me having to wait 2 hours in his car for him to finish talking to his friend at work. He said I was selfish and sulked for a week, met up with me in person the night before my birthday and said he needed to “protect” himself from me. He then sent a message on my birthday saying he wished me the best and the best year.
I ended up taking him back and ever since he finds a way to ignore my birthday - either working away, saying it a few days later or just giving me a gift months later and saying it’s for my birthday.
I’ve had enough this week and blocked him without explaining why - am I being manipulative? Childish?
I just can’t cope with feeling like this anymore and he always finds a way to talk me back round into staying