Hi I am feeling super down lately. I have been with my bf 9 years and have a 1yr old and am currently 9 weeks pregnant. We have been rocky for a few months due to me failing a uni assignment ( I was 8 weeks pp at the time) and having to resist the year and therefore delaying me getting a job. (We are not broke but he was hoping for another income which I get) but he has said multiple times I’m a failure blah blah and since has been verbally and sometimes physically abusive towards me. I am on the pill and found out I’m pregnant which I was not expecting. I have been diagnosed with HG and have even been hospitalised with it as I was so dehydrated. I’m struggling so badly with trying to look after my daughter and the house and so fourth. We recently had a big argument and then 2 days later I had to go to the hospital because of HG overnight and he didn’t once ask if I was okay. The next day was my birthday and he didn’t even wish me a happy birthday or even get me a card! Only a card off my daughter. Not even a present and no effort went into it. I am over the relationship I don’t want to be with him and I dont know how to leave with a 1 yr old and pregnant. Just looking for some kind words really. I have also spoken to his mum about it (we are close) and she is saying it’s his mental health but no one deserves to be treated like that. Also when I confronted him about not helping around the house he said ‘well it’s self inflicted’ (meaning my HG). I am broken.