i have a friend who has been with her partner for about 4 years now, they have a 3yr old together. He seemed a nice guy at first and I could tell she loved him we were all so happy for her.
After the first year is when we all started noticing her change becoming more quite and quite down looking when we were around them both he was always barking orders at her, always made out like he knew best kind of thing.
she got pregnant they had their daughter and that’s when it became more hard to hear n see as a friend as I believe there daughter was 3 months oldish and he kicked her out (his home at the time) and refused to give her the baby he was holding her. she came to stay with me for the night. When she turned up she just looked like I’ve never saw someone look just totally it was upsetting to see. Later on found out she had postpartum depression. That still didn’t stop him from commenting on her weight after the baby how she looked compared to before and that she was a rubbish mom etc. he tells her what she can and can’t do with their daughter.
Also he wouldn’t let her go anywhere unless he could tag along too. especially with the girls and him being the only guy there. She doesn’t go nowhere because he will kick off with her etc
they have broken up quite a few times but manage to get back together thorough him telling her his suicidal or that he has nowhere to go (he does his moms) but he won’t because he argues with his parents and siblings at home. But he didn’t mind kicking her out when they lived in his flat! she gets lonely easy has never lived alone
they’ve just got back together yesterday after he stole stuff to sell for his habits and he was messaging other women. She knows I’m always here for her there’s not much I can do about it but
What I’m trying to say is something just doesn’t sit right with me about him. Non of he family like him her mother wants her to leave him but only she can do that.
I do getting worried about her. But am I being dramatic ?