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About to be made homeless after breakup

8 replies

Frankie95 · 27/09/2022 21:21

Hi!
So, 6 weeks ago I found out my partner had cheated on me and I left. He owns the house that we lived in, so I had to move out. I went back to my mums, but on Friday she is moving into a 1 bed flat as she has sold her house (it was sold before I moved back in with her). Where she is moving is over 100 miles from where we currently live, so it’s not like I can go with her and just stay on the sofa for the time being. The closest person I could potentially stay with is my dad, but he lives 35 miles away and I don’t drive, so I wouldn’t be able to get to work.
I have actively been looking for somewhere to rent, which has been difficult as there is barely anything available. For the last 2 weeks I have been undergoing checks to rent a 1 bed house, but today I was rejected as they said my income was too low and my guarantor was also rejected. I worked out my finances before applying for the house, and although I might not have been able to afford much in the way of luxuries and treats after rent and bills, and would have managed just fine.
I was pinning everything on being able to get this house, and now I’ve been rejected I am absolutely screwed. I don’t know what to do or where to go from here. I suppose my purpose of this post is just to vent really, but does anyone have any advice? And has anyone ever been in a similar situation and then everything became okay again?
I just feel so ill, stressed and panicked. Thank you xxx

OP posts:
MichelleScarn · 27/09/2022 21:24

Could you look at a house share or bedsit till you can save more or look at changing jobs/more hours if not full time?

wb3 · 27/09/2022 21:38

This isn't really a relationship issue. This is a housing/finance issue.

You might get better responses on a different board.

Thisisworsethananticpated · 27/09/2022 21:39

House share , as immediate and cheaper option
try local Facebook and renter websites
good
luck Xxx

Successgirl2022 · 27/09/2022 21:41

MichelleScarn · 27/09/2022 21:24

Could you look at a house share or bedsit till you can save more or look at changing jobs/more hours if not full time?

Yes, I agree.

In this case, I personally would be desperate to save up and buy my own flat/house so I would never ever be in a vulnerable homeless position, would Always be in control of my own property and no man would ever tell me to leave.

That's why money is 99% everything in life and I am personally a very materialistic person because of that.

GreenIsle · 27/09/2022 21:41

Op look on spareroom.com you should be able to find something reasonable for your temporary situation and it's usually super quick to organise also.

Bunnyfuller · 27/09/2022 21:43

Was going to say spareroom.com

WhileAFoxIsWatching · 27/09/2022 21:49

I guess a studio or houseshare or being a lodger would be cheaper

Calandor · 27/09/2022 22:25

House share, studio or look for a lodger set up. Maybe ask round at work if anyone knows anywhere going / local FB rental pages.

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