What to do with this hate??

[kidsmom3]

I am in the proceedings of divorcing my husbond. Married 14 years, grown apart. I have 3 children, not his, But he been in their life since they remember. They all Call him dad. No bio dad in their life.
I instigated divorce. I Think he is emotionel abusive, But since i moved out he has just hate me so much. His layer has ignored my layer for 2 months. He ignore my txt and phone calls. Tell kids how evil i am, throwing him on the Streets, Gold digger as i am. Kids confused.
I still has friendly feelings, thought we could make an ok divorce . But his hate.. i have such a hard time, coping. He sends evil txt, tell kids lies. How do you deal wirh this ?
His hate has thrown me. Completely. I am so hurt.

Anyone? 🙏

That's your proof that you've done the right thing by initiating a divorce. He's abusive.

If I were you, I'd cut all his contact with the kids. They're not his so he has no legal right to contact them. If they have phones, block the number. How dare he try to turn YOUR kids against you.

Find support from friends and family. You will get through this.

Thanks for your answer. Kids are teenagers, Young adults, i cant make Them not see him.
But you helped me. True, i made the right decision as he is so abusive.
Friends and Family is still social media friends with him. It make me withdraw from them and my "social circle" is getting quite small. Argh!