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How bad is my relationship?

26 replies

Caradel · 20/09/2022 00:02

I'm realising that I'm not in a healthy relationship and I can't see a way of it working.

The more I think about it the more I realise some things might be unacceptable. It's hard when you're in the relationship to see it for what it is.

How bad are these things? Are they terrible and I've not realised. Or are they normal issues couples can have?

Ignoring me in bed when I've said not to put a cushion next the the cot.

Refusing to hug me when I'm crying my eyes out saying i feel unloved.

Telling me I'm offending him and his family because I don't want his sister to look after our child on her own.

Demanding I reply to a question via text not a phone call.

Coming home from work and picking up out daughter and kissing her and totally ignoring me.

Telling me I'm upsetting him when I tell him how to do things, to do with our daughter.

Never saying sorry.

OP posts:
felulageller · 20/09/2022 12:19

Your relationship is unhappy.

You don't need any more reason than that to leave.

You want to leave and by going back to work full time you have the means to.

It's much easier to do it at this point/ after mat leave than further down the line.

After a decade you deserve more than this.

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