Discussing betrayal and boundaries

[Thisismyusernamefornow]

My on/off boyfriend of 3 years had a one night stand with somebody a few months ago when we were in a break. He's assured me no contact since then but is now on social media dishing the likes out. I've told him I've seen this and he's lost his temper with me for checking on him. He's 50 years old not a boy. clearly I don't trust him and for good reason it now seems. But I don't know how to discuss this with him as he's turned it around as a me problem.

@LoekMa this has made me sad because I know it's true.

All you can do is leave him to it.

You can't police his emotions or actions, if he wants to carry on disrespecting you and hurting you, what can you do.

He could be shagging 22 people a day and if that's what he wants you can't stop him, unless you chain him up.

All you can do is remove youself from the situation and do not allow him any of your time in your life.

Fill the space up with others who you respect, do not hurt others and are accountable for their actions.

Wave goodbye to him.

Great posts @Watchkeys