Is it normal to feel anxious about your boyfriend going clubbing? Does anyone else feel like this?
Me and my boyfriend have been together just over a year he’s the best guy I’ve ever been with I have a daughter from a previous relationship and he treats her so well he loves spending time with her and she loves spending time with him he’s a good guy his mums bought him up properly he’s not the type of guy to cheat or talk to girls behind my back etc I really do trust him he’s only ever had one relationship before me (we’re only 22) he’s never been the type to be a “fuck boy”. Anyway he told me he’s going clubbing this Friday and straight away I got a bad gut feeling and they always mean something…he never goes out with his friends he’s always working, seeing me, going out with his mum the only time he might see his friends is if he goes and chills with them and even then he always leaves early so it’s not as if he goes clubbing or out every week it’s a one off I don’t want to seem mad that he’s going or controlling but it’s just the thought of me being at home twiddling my fingers while he’s out clubbing surrounded by all these girls that are done up and wearing revealing clothes he obviously walks past tons of girls everyday that he must find attractive and it’s not as if he talks to them or anything he’ll ignore them but clubbing is a complete different type of environment I feel like I’ll end up going to sleep early just to stop myself worrying. He also dosent drink as he’s Muslim so it’s not as if he’ll get drunk and do something he regrets and he’s never given me a reason not to trust him I’m his first serious girlfriend he really does love me I think it’s just me thinking the worst and stressing I’ve not been able to relax since he told me earlier today. What’s everyone’s opinions on their partners clubbing no bad experiences please as I’m trying to reassure myself.