Think I'm moving in the right direction

[EmmaMarie18]

I've previously posted on here..basically three weeks ago my relationship came to an end. Had the silent treatment, living separate in the same house since then 🤯

I take each day as it comes, have my tough times but mostly feel ok so maybe that's a sign?! (TBH I don't know what I would actually miss) Him however has been absolutely disgusting to all of us, snapping, shouting, tantrums, the usual!

We were all sat having food the beginning of the week where my daughter (who's had enough of him and hates him) told him to stop slopping his food (which he was 🤢) 🙈 his reply was "stop breathing" if he did!!!!!!

While he's been in work this week I've had the house valued (joint) just need to pick the moment to tell him before I can give the go ahead Tuesday for it to go on the market..I'm done!!!!

It's our little boys birthday today and my mother has come to stay for the weekend. I'm just so annoyed at how false he is in front of her, how nice he's been to my daughter in front of my mother which to me tells me he knows how he's behaving towards her which makes me so angry and makes it 100 times worse what he's doing!

We've got our sons birthday party today. His mother will make an appearance and to be honest she's as bad as him! I'm just guna smile and wave for the sake of my little boy and his special day they ain't worth ruining that!

I'm torn at the moment though and don't know whether I need to speak to my daughters dad, my mother did say tonight that her dad recently said that my daughter had said things to him (didn't go into detail) but he wanted to 'knock him out' basically. He's never said anything to me but perhaps he feels like he can't I don't know 🤷🏼‍♀️ and he's not that way inclined too so I was shocked to hear about his reaction

Wish I could fast forward a few months and be long gone from here and HIM! How can someone be so calculated and cruel is beyond me

I used to date an abuser ( got out after a year and a half) but he was amazingly clever at fooling everyone else into thinking how kind and caring he was when he was the polar opposite after we got home!

I'm sorry to hear that you're going through this.
Your daughter's dad may well be concerned about his daughter and the atmosphere she's living in so maybe having a word with him is wise.

You’ll get there it seems a slog but just think no more sulks grumpiness oh yes I’ve had that charming outside to everyone but awful inside. My first non grumpy Christmas I can’t wait I hope my move definitely happens. You’ll feel fantastic and so will your daughter poor love how dare he treat her like this bad enough you but her as well, vermin.

@JestersTear that's what annoys me the most how nice he acts infront of people and how lovely they think he is 🤬 so frustrating!

@Always4Brenner that's what my little girl has said 'we could have our first happy Christmas' 😔 she gave up so much for him too, we both did, moving from our friends and family so he could be closer to his son 🤯

I'm just dreading his mother coming down no doubt he's filled her full of lies and only told her what he wants her to hear 😳 I can't wait to be shot of him and his family I really can't

I feel so embarrassed!

My little boys birthday today so my mothers down for the weekend to stay! My little boy has had a lovely day, we're all chilling in our pyjamas after his party and a very busy day!

That dick head has made it soooo noticeable there's issues! He went to the shop (probably for alcohol) he came back from the shop and straight up to the attic! In my eyes it's still our little boys birthday until he goes to bed and he'd rather sit in the attic drinking on his own!

He hasn't even asked how the house valuations went yesterday not a word! Whether he thinks I haven't had them done 🤷🏼‍♀️

My Mother can see what he's doing and she's being so civil and keeping the peace for my sake she said bless her! I hate him!!!!!!

The in-laws won’t talk to me now but ex father in law forgets all the phone calls about his son he knows what’s he’s like he’s grumpy the weed the vapes the music money wasted over the years. He’s no angel my stbx. Yes I can’t wait to get out now. this last year happened through my depression feeing like a housekeeper moaned at snapped at. My dreams shattered but at least no more grumpy Christmas let the dwp do their worst, if they lose me my home I might as well end it then.