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I’ve LTB and want to say thank you

23 replies

mrs55 · 14/09/2022 12:56

After over a year of turmoil while I was pregnant and after I’ve ltb. There was god knows how many affairs/cheating drug abuse a stint in rehab more cheating and drug use emotional abuse and I’ve only just recovered from ptsd systems , last week I finally cracked and told him that it was over for good after another round of the same old sh*t. I’ve read through countless threads on here , about being a team the script emotional abuse boundaries and how you should be treat in a partnership, so I want to say thank you for helping me break the cycle I feel free I feel like my real self again I’m now looking forward to creating a new future for me and the kids . I can now start to enjoy life for me and my kids and in the future teach my daughter what I have learned and what she deserves. Sending hugs to you all I’ve finally got my confidence back.

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ChimChimeny · 14/09/2022 12:57

That's amazing, well done! Onwards & upwards Flowers

Opaljewel · 14/09/2022 13:01

Amazing post. Wishing you nothing but happiness and success.

Justcallmebebes · 14/09/2022 13:21

Brilliant news, well done you. All the very best in your new life

girlmom21 · 14/09/2022 13:23

Well done you! It's so hard but you're doing amazingly.

CousinKrispy · 14/09/2022 13:23

That's wonderful, OP, I'm really pleased for you! Best wishes.

WestIsWest · 14/09/2022 13:23

Brilliant post to read! Sorry you’ve had to go through all that crap and good luck for a happy lovely future with your DC 🌸

GotYouJerry · 14/09/2022 13:24

Bloody well done. Enjoy your new life and freedom.

Starlightstarbright1 · 14/09/2022 13:27

Wishing you happiness in your new chapter

HandShoe · 14/09/2022 13:34

What lovely news! Good for you. Wishing all the best for a fantastic future.

Ambertonix · 14/09/2022 14:00

Fantastic OP. Well done for breaking the cycle. I wish you nothing but good things in your life going forward.

Always4Brenner · 14/09/2022 14:02

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👍👍👍👍👍👍🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗well done hardest bit done now enjoy your life. I know I’m going to my home will be my safe sanctuary away from the word no one gets in except official visits and very close friends.

picklemewalnuts · 14/09/2022 14:10

Well done!!

Shoxfordian · 14/09/2022 14:14

Well done in your happier new life

BeggarsMeddle · 14/09/2022 14:17

Well done! I wish you the very best of everything 👏

TwowaystoUrmston · 14/09/2022 14:25

Bloody well done OP, so glad you're free and feeling strong. Don't forget MN is here for the times you don't feel so strong too though, nothing worth doing is easy and we'll be here if you need support or someone to listen Flowers

CuntyMcBollocks · 14/09/2022 14:31

Well done for having the strength to ltb. I wish you and your children all the luck in the world. The only way is up Flowers

SatInTheCorner · 14/09/2022 14:33

Well done OP. Keep that strength 💪

PainPainGoAwayToday · 14/09/2022 14:36

Well done ❤️ Keep us updated on how happy you are x (if you want to of course!)

I say this because you will be much, much happier 😊

Coyoacan · 14/09/2022 14:37

That is wonderful. Have you thought of taking the Freedom Programme? I say that as an old woman who would have majorly benefitted if there had been such a programme in my youth.

MiauzenKatzenjammer · 14/09/2022 14:38

This is very good news. Well done.

SquirrelSoShiny · 14/09/2022 15:00

Well done OP Flowers

Maytodecember · 14/09/2022 15:04

Well done, have a brilliant, wonderful, happy future. 🌼

thisisit77 · 15/09/2022 11:08

Well done, seriously well done. Now take these lessons and only let a man into your life if he meets all the criteria you feel you need to be safe, happy and comfortable. You and your children deserve nothing less!

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