Last night my boyfriend of 8 years told me he wanted time apart while living in the same house as we have not been getting on and that it's wearing him down. I'm in my third trimester with our first baby.
Is this going to work?
I think he wants to leave me but I really don't want that to happen. I love him so much.
The problems all started when he changed his attitude towards me in July.. I asked him what was bothering him but he wouldn't tell me. As time went on and I was still asking if he was ok, things got worse. He wouldn't speak to me spend time with me or even look at me. I got fed up of asking and I went into a similar mood. Apparently that's his main problem, that I went like that. But he had been in a mood for several weeks by then and not telling me what was wrong.
Eventually when drunk everything came out at the end of August. It made sense the way he had been. So since then I've been trying to work things out but don't feel like he's putting any effort in. I think he's just given up on us.
I just want the best for this baby but I don't think I could be my best without him. It's been a stressful time as it is and this is making everything worse. Has anyone got any tips on how I can work on this and win him round? Thanks