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How could she do this

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Sandy8765 · 12/09/2022 10:44

Letting off steam really as i know my friendship of 2 years ended today but i cant believe shes done what shes done, shes always been a narcasist and it always has to be all about her and if its not she will make it so, few weeks back i broke both legs so ive not been able to walk, im recovering now and can walk a bit, she wouldnt visit me in hospital( dont want to get covid) twice she said she would visit me at home and cancelled, she has helped me but has asked for money ie i asked her to get me some shopping and she bought herself some food, she took me out twice and asked for petrol money and that i buy her dinner, anyway we were due to go out today and i was meeting her somewhere( i struggle so i got a taxi to our meeting point) and she didnt turn up.....its all deliberate as these are the games she plays....at the last minute she messaged saying oh i overslept which is a lie....what kind of person leaves someone somewhere in recovery with 2 broken legs!!

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Kerrylass · 12/09/2022 10:57

I had a similar friendship breakdown. By the sounds of it you are missing nothing in terms of friendship so my advice is: , Have no regrets over what you said or done, do not waste a moment thinking about her, if she comes into your head, immediately think of something else, and don't get into any mind games with her and mutual friends. Be patient they will eventually see her true colours. Also accept that there will prob be no apology or admission of wrong doing so just forget her. You live and learn.

PinkButtercups · 12/09/2022 11:03

You're not missing out.

I had a really toxic 'best friend' of about 10 years. She is a complete narcissist. I stepped back after having DS as you really see someone's true colours more so when you've had a child.

Tried to spread lies about my DP at that point I had enough. When I was at uni she used my phone to text her mum and she left the messages on my phone (probably for me to see) and they were both calling me a slut.. this was because I had my guy uni friends around my apartment for some pre drinks before we went to a gig...

She recently unfollowed me on social media because I didn't 'like' a comment she made on a post of mine and it's like a weight has been lifted and that dark cloud has shifted. I'm so glad she did. I'm free of the beast! 😀.

Sandy8765 · 12/09/2022 13:10

I know thankyou there have been ongoing issues, she expects me to pay for everything and everything is drama and toxic, shes always falling out with people who cut her off

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