I've been with DP for 9 years and we have a wonderful DS and house together. We have worked really hard to be in the position where we are now. We get along well, don't really argue but I just don't feel like the relationship is right, I'm really lacking the passion and just feeling rather empty towards it all. If we didn't have DS I probably would have left. It also seems very selfish if I was to split the family apart when there's nothing really wrong with it. Is there such thing as the 9 year itch?! I'm hoping this is a phase which will pass ☹️ Has anyone else felt the same? I'm not even sure of the point in my post, I guess I'm just feeling confused and sad. Our relationship looks and should feel perfect. Instead I just feel like we're coexisting with each other.