My DP of three years has become very unkind during my pregnancy. I’m usually quite a strong, caring person but I feel broken by what he’s doing.
he gets home and barely speaks. He forgot the scan and when there was a concern with the scan he was extremely cold and patronising when I was worrying (we had to go back the following week to check it had been resolved).
I had a day in hospital after covid due to breathing and I absolutely hate having the drip in my hand, I know it’s pathetic, and he was glaring at me in this really nasty way. I was very weak when we left hospital and leant into him and he completely pushed me away. It was really odd.
i had a cough for a few days that lingered and anytime I coughed he would mock me. He seemed to find it funny. Really unlike him, or so I thought.
my family bought us a meal one weekend and driving back he said they were very full on… I understand that’s subjective but honestly my family are really polite and quiet people! Not at all in your face. It was the first time he’d met my sister and I said did you get on with xx and he said yeah she’s ok…
he’s started binge drinking. He’s a heavy drinker anyway but rarely see him him drunk. I’ve seen him drunk more times in the last two months than ever in our relationship.
i walked in on him the other day taking a photo of my letter from the hospital. He said he just wanted to know what was going on with the baby. But I felt uneasy. Maybe I’m being too sensitive?!
obviously I feel quite sensitive anyway at the moment so I can’t tell if I’m being over the top. In the past he’s had form for being v selfish but not nasty like this. Baby was unexpected but wanted, apparently by him too when it happened. I’m 6mo now.