Few problems with my gf

[Danielsan007]

Hello i am male 39 years old. I was not serious relationshop before. Six months ago i find reall sweet girl 36 years old. She have 14 years old son.
We really click and when she have leg injury after month in our dating we decide i movenin to her flat and help her out.
I take care of her and after two months ahe decode i stay at her place. So we start lice together and many things arise.

1, she is really lazy , she has mess at home but outside we all have clean clothes etc but her home is mess , i can live with that. But she start play games on her phone and just forget do laundry or make launch. She is also long time unemployed so she has time.

2, her mother , visits us at bad moments , yell all the time

3, her son is also lazy as hell even to take something to drink he just call his mother and play on computer all the time.

4, her female friend , single mother with two kids , she call all time to babysit her kids because of something she need to do

I am about break up with her. I cand stand all this i buy them food and try to be nice to them but i love her. But i start unhappiness settle in my heart and mind. I am angry too often and still i cant leave her.

Please help.

First: Move out.
You rushed through everything incredibly, unhealthily fast.

Then, decide if these things are things you can accept in her or not. Don’t try to change her or the way she manages her relationships with her son or her friends. If you can accept them then see if she wants to continue the relationship living separately. If you can’t accept them (which is perfectly fine, you might be incompatible) then,
like you say, you need to break up.

That! Move out and give yourself some breathing space.

You rode in on a fast horse to be her saviour. Now you need to put yourself first and to think this through.

moving in with her and her son after six months was a mistake. Move out again, take a breath, figure out it this is what you want.

Too much, way too soon and you re obviously incompatible in your living styles. Can you go back to dating without living with her?

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Thank you for your responses.
Moving out is somehow out of question , i get used to her so much i feel bad when i am alone. She even didnt need pay attention to me just being in my proximity and i am happy.
She dont mind when i touch her , she touch me back , just i feel we skip few steps along the way. She welcome me home when i come from work , hug me when i feel down.
And yes she says she loved me only once. I Think she feel insecure telling me that.

Guess we both are damaged from previous relationships and feel insecure with each other.