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Am I being too superficial?

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YepItsMe88 · 06/09/2022 18:32

So I’ve been out of a relationship for more than 10 years after an awful break up. I’ve been OLD for a while, but not actually met up with anyone as it’s normally about sex or I bottle it.

Last week, a guy I had a few dates with before the awful relationship happened had super liked me on tinder. We’d only not dated more as he was a rebound from a previous relationship. I have great luck.

We’ve been talking every day, he’d like to take it further and he’s said he’s not bothered that I have a kid etc. He’s polite, has a job and is perfectly nice in every way.

the thing is he’s 5’5 and I’m only half an inch shorter. Should I really let this bother
me. He’s said it has got to him in the past and women have been put off dating him except for petite women.

Would it bother you? In every relationship, I seem to find faults where sometimes there aren’t any and I’m trying to stop doing that.

OP posts:
CPL593H · 07/09/2022 10:41

Ultimately, you find attractive what you find attractive, but someone like the beautiful Gwendoline Christie ( 6 foot 3) would be looking at quite a limited field if she'd only dated taller men!

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