I am in a new relationship and very happy with this man. There is a woman who has known my partner for less time but she is obsessed with him. He used to go for photography walks with her when he was in a bad place. They met a few times and she confessed her feelings for him and wants to be with him even though she is in a relationship. He said he had to let her down gently as he does not see her in that way and is not physically attracted to her.
Now, I said 2 weeks ago that this woman fancied him and he denied it and it turns out I was right as he rejected her a few weeks before this. He said she is a good friend and been there for him but I know she will keep persevering as she thinks he will change his mind. She comments and likes everything he posts on Facebook and I mean everything. She always posts saying she is there for him if he needs her. She even told him to get rid of his friends saying they need to go as she believes they are not good. He said she is very protective of him.
Now, I have said to him on multiple occasions I would never tell him who he should and should not be friends with as that is not my business to control someone else's life.
In a group chat she tried to twist an innocent comment I made but luckily some good friends came to my defence and could see what she was trying to do.
Soon she may be out for a mutual friend's birthday and I said to him what will you do as we will be in the same room and he said he never thought of that.
I feel really upset because this woman has no respect for our relationship and I know he won't cut her off as he is using her to vent about his problems.
He absolutely adores me but I don't know how he is going to handle this. I really don't want to lose him.