Cheating.

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So long story short last night me and my boyfriend were both at our separate friends house having a drink and watching the football the plan was to get a taxi together back to our house. So then night went on a girl I know messaged me saying that my boyfriend had tried to add her on Snapchat thought it was a bit weird but asked her to play along as I have had suspicions for a while and wanted solid proof he would cheat. They arranged to meet up and the girls told me he was meeting him at this place at this time and I was their and he turned up to get her and I caught him right out. The messages he had been sending her prior were very inappropriate and they agreed they would be meeting for sex. Now obviously I am so so hurt by this he says it was down to the drink and he's so sorry I don't know where to go from here:

He arranged to meet another woman for sex, you break up surely?

Sorry OP sounds horrible.

What's the chance of this very the very first time and him getting caught?

Where do you go from here? Right out the door.

You've had suspicions for a while and now you have definite proof that he is willing to cheat on you.

Where you go from here is you dump the scumbag and never go near him again - what else would you possibly plan on doing if you have a shred of self respect?

I don't know where to go from here

Come on now. I'm sorry this has happened, but don't be a mug. Your boyfriend is more than happy to cheat on you, any chance he gets. This is the kind of man you want?

Raise your standards and get rid of this loser.

You don't accept this behaviour. To do so would be damaging to your self-confidence and self-esteem. It's also beyond explanations and apologies. Move on.

Where to go from here?

To the bin. Dump him in it, dust off your hands, hold your head up damn high and start again.

He doesn't give a fuck about you. Don't look back.

Run and don't look back

I guess if you are happy to be in a relationship where your partner pursues other women and has sex with them, then you don't need to do anything.

If you don't want a partner like that, then you have to leave this one and find one who is faithful.

Where you go from here is as far away from him as possible. He would have cheated on you had this girl been willing to have sex with him. What more proof do you need?

The whole "I was drunk" excuse is a load of nonsense, and I guarantee he will use that in the future when he does cheat on you, which he will if you stay with him.

This is a no-brainer. You've got your evidence, now get out of there.

You don't trust him, you're playing games, he's arranging sex with other women, and he's making up silly excuses.

What more do you need?

OP I think you know exactly where to go from here. He's a cheating asshole and you need to get rid of him. If you were to stay surely everytime he has a drink you would think he would be meeting other girls for sex? Though I'm sure a guy like that probably would do it sober too

Don’t stand for this behaviour. They are always sorry, they always do it again. Raise your standards and block, and be grateful to the girl who told you what he was up to and got you the proof

Dump and block, obviously.