Should I give another chance?

[Caz19871]

I was with my fiancé for 7 years , the relationship has been very up and down. He had a few wobbles in the past but for the last 5 months we’ve been apart. He’s changed his mind around 3 times in the relationship. Living together still but the house has been up for sale.
He never appreciated what he had and broke up with me because he didn’t know if he wanted us or our future. This is not the first time he’s done it.
He’s now regretting his decision and says that he’ll do whatever it takes to make it work and that he doesn’t want to lose me. I’m scared that If I let him back in that’ll I’ll get hurt again and be back to square one.
At one point I felt so low I never thought I’d get through it and I’m now in a place of acceptance.
I still love him but im torn between my head and heart.
has anyone else been in this situation and can give some advice ?

My advice would be to continue with the house sale and go your separate ways.

You will never feel safe or secure with him, you deserve better.

It's been 7 years and you're thinking of breaking up with your fiance rather than arranging the wedding.

That doesn't sound like either a normal engagement or a healthy enough relationship.

Use your head

Hurt you once, more fool him. Hurt you twice, more fool you.

I agree with @AuntieStella

Your head AND heart should be telling you it's over.

You’ll live in fear of the next breakup. It’s not a healthy situation.