Hey just some advice
I was messing around with my instagram yesterday and some glitch in the matrix resulted in me going onto my old profile which contained my ex from four years ago
On the feed it was weddings holidays and him with a new partner having a great time in the sun, lots of couples photos. He had been postung another woman from a couple of years ago and there was still photos of me from years ago
We ended four years ago after the straw that broke the camels back - he sent me streams of abusive messages when I went for a weekend away - calling me a slut, bitch, lacking of character because I had a night out with friends.
He moved himself into my flat two years prior to this as a student whilst I worked as a medic
He would go on and on and on about how shit the NHS was and how it was impossible to access adequete care (As I was working excessive hours and exhausted as an ED registrar)
I never wanted to have sex with him as he was so pushy but would sometimes make myself, this resulted in bleeding a few times - he would get angry about me not wanting sex and say most couples need to have sex once a week at least I was so exhausted from work
I am much older and wiser now from when this happened and it is obvious clear why I broke up with him but what I need advice on is how unfair it is that he gets to move on in insta perfect life. How does he get to be in a new relationship with a beautiful woman and I have been single having awful expierences on OLD. I have had two years of therapy
I am 35 and under no illusion it might never happen for me, babies and marriage. It breaks my heart I wasted my 25/31 with him. Why do these people always move on and have nice lives... I know a couple of men who have remarried after divorce after treating their ex wife like shit - she is left with the kids and he swarms off into the sunset
I appreciate four years is a long time but it still hurts