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Nightmare neighbour

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Sge995 · 01/09/2022 22:23

So, I’m living in a council house and we all moved into our homes at the same time. Next door was very very nice and next thing I’ve got messages from random girls saying I’ve slept with their partner and their sending me screenshots of this young girl who’s moved next door making up all these rumours.
im a single mother to a little boy and we only moved from our lovely home due to domestic violence, I lived a quiet life with lovely neighbours for over 6 years until all of this started.
I knocked on and said what’s all this and she was very weird and screaming she’s incapable of speaking normally.
since then she has been fixated on this rumour I’m having an affair with her baby dad!
she has had cameras in my back garden, she’s shouted abuse at me and my child and she’s smashed windows, she’s only 20 and she has a 1 year old child herself. Her and her boyfriend are forever shouting on the front and in the garden and always talking about sex so loudly it’s disturbing. He only stays over a few nights and every other night she has multiple different men staying there. I must stress I have NEVER slept with nor spoken to anybody she has had contact with. I know none of these people nor do I have any intention on doing so. I go to work, and take care of my son.

she keeps throwing wild parties every Saturday and having teenagers around 15-17 there from 3pm Saturday to 4pm the following Sunday. There’s constantly balloon canisters over the fence and beer bottles. One Saturday I knocked on and asked what time the music would be going off and she’s physically assaulted me with her brother infront of my son who was stood at the door they was both arrested and bailed and since then she’s none stopped harrasing me screaming about me constantly and I’ve had video evidence. The police have come out to take a statement and she’s going to be arrested for harrasment on top of the assault charge.
I’ve written to the MP, I’ve begged the council for help. Has anybody else had anything like this?
she’s unstable she stands holding her child screaming to the man “if you don’t take her for a hour I’m going to hurt her” and also screams “I’m not taking her back” when she’s in the house and sits from a window and watches her little girl outside and doesn’t open the door. It’s very weird and childish behaviour but she has started watching me and a neighbour said when I was sunbathing they looked out of the window and she was sat next to her fence looking through a gap in the fence.

i personally find this behaviour extremely dangerous, does anybody have any advice/will the CPS take this seriously?? Will the council now I’ve got a restraining order and the police have arrested her for harrasment and assault?? I’m sick of living like this.

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skittlesrainbows · 01/09/2022 22:42

Oh this sounds horrendous! I've had no experience with this but I really hope you get this sorted for yours and your kids sake.

Are social services involved if she's clearly unstable and throwing parties with teenagers with a young child in the house?

Veryverycalmnow · 01/09/2022 22:49

If she can treat her own child so horribly it's no surprise that she can treat neighbours badly. I gasped when I read the part about her holding her daughter and screaming those words to her ex about harming her! That's so sad for the poor little girl.I also wonder if SS are involved. I guess you have called them. Sounds awful and I hope you get it resolved.

Sge995 · 02/09/2022 09:48

Contacted local council, police, local MP.
Its every neighbour surrounding who’s also concerned / sick of her behaviour so there’s multiple complaints from different households, unfortunately I’m taking the brunt of being harassed and stalked.
Im just hoping CPS prosecute for all of this. X

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