Hi
Ive had this same gut instinct that somethings going on with my husband at work. We have been together many years and i just know him and have trusted him completely. Never had a feeling like this in all those years with him.
I will keep this as brief as possible. He use to hate working for this one company & would always moan about everything he does for them. But since a new girl started in the office he jumps at the chance to please the company. He is double her age. As soon as she calls he will go to the office even if he’s just got in from work. He’s also pushing for a full time job with them which he mentions to the boss everyday but the boss still hasn’t produced a contract.
He has everyone on loud speaker when he gets a call as apparently he can’t hear people properly on his phone. But if the girl from the office calls he won’t put it on loud speaker and will walk out the room. He’s even said to me once he won’t be able to pick our daughter up as he’s had a upset stomach, the girl from the office calls and he gone in a instant to ‘pick stuff up’. His voice changes to when on the phone to her and you can hear him laughing and joking around on the phone. If she calls and needs a job doing he will fit it in even if he is fully booked already.
I’ve lost count now of the times he’s needed stuff dropping to his office so i keep saying i can do it for him, but he won’t let me go any where near the office. He will do anything possible, even make his day so much longer to drop the stuff off.
The other morning she accidentally video called him at 7am. Don’t understand how you can accidentally video call?
His jobs mess up to and it’s because she hasn’t organised his day correctly, but my husband can never fault her. For example of this was another employee of his he is very fast to kick off and point the finger.
His attitude changes daily, sometimes he comes home extremely cold and explosive and others extremely nice. It’s a constant worry as to what mood he will be in.
Many months ago now he stopped his bank statements coming to the house and is now talking to a mortgage advisor about buying a house. I keep saying to wait till i’m on full time employment as we can borrow more but he’s looking to get the mortgage with his wage alone.
Just feel like i’m going crazy, keep telling myself it’s nothing but i keep getting a proper knot in my stomach. I don’t know if i’m just insecure or he’s embarrassed of me that’s why he doesn’t want me dropping stuff off for him?
Thank you in advance.