Pied off for the fourth time this year by a friend that seems to not value my time, my life, my weekends.... not only this but the reason I was given the day before meeting was shown to be a lie via social media showing she was actually given a better offer to hang out with a different group of friends who she sees often. Fine. But don't expect me to make any more effort either. I wouldn't have even known we weren't meeting if I hadn't of messaged her, after a week of silence (a repeated tactic of hoping I've forgotten I suppose?!).
Fortunately I have a good group of close friends I see regularly, but if I didn't, imagine how shit I'd feel to being treated this way.
I'm due my baby in 2 months, just before her wedding later this year, and Im still supposed to be being a bridesmaid. I laughed with my other friends about how I just feel like I'm bridal party filler.
No effort made to see me and my baby, no consideration that I have turned down other social offers or plans because I've agreed to seeing her, it's a load of BS.
We all have busy lives, but the lack of consideration for my time and my family plans is just so out of order and I'm done with it. I just dont know the best way to phase it out.