Struggling to come to terms.

[Northernfairycakes]

I'm seeing someone who has been a good friend for a long time. I am very much in love. He reciprocates feelings, and I have every reason to believe this is the case, but is in an unhappy marriage and lacks confidence in himself. He's never going to leave, is he? Should I walk away before my life falls to pieces?

Does his wife know it's an unhappy marriage or is this just his version?

He’ll leave if he wants to. How long has the affair been going on? If he’s unhappy he’ll leave. If he doesn’t leave he’s not that unhappy.

Yes , you should walk away.

Let me guess, they aren’t having sex and he’s just staying for the kids 🤔

Yes he is never going to leave her, or rather very unlikely

Oh jesus

He would leave if he wanted to. So you should probably end it before you get even more hurt.

Tell him you love him and you’ll be there when he is free (as long as he doesn’t wait too long…) but for your own sanity and for ethical reasons you need to stop seeing him.