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[Annie1985ab]

I have gone back to dating, after having a child and then divorce, and the first one I met was only after sex/using me. I have now "met" someone else online, he says he wants committed exclusive relationship only, no casual hook up etc, which is what I want.
He's lovely to talk to on the phone and we are to meet up next week BUT I have had a bad back for a few days and he sent a text today saying "I do a good massage".
Immediately, I just thought on no not again, another douche bag just after one thing. I'm I over reacting ? I don't want to meet him now !

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Sounds like he's putting on a front 🙈 making out as if he's a good guy! Typical!

When me and my DP met (through a friend) no dirty talk/sexy pics at all before we became official. Even after that we aren't like that either!

I think I’d reply back “well if my back still hurts in 3 months I’ll take you up on that offer”. See what he came back with – if he lowered the tone even more then, nah but if he took the hint then great.

But yes, it's a bit eye-roll predictable. He's hoping you'll start thinking about his hands on your body which is a bit.. when you've not even met yet.