I feel so trapped in my relationship. My family live hours away and I live near my work with my partner. He has this negativity about him, he never wants to do anything (unless it’s with mates) and he’s got such a cold and hard attitude about him. I’ve always laughed it off and tried to bring out a fun and silly side, but I’m exhausted. I’ve tried to make it work, but more often than not I just feel alone and depressed here. I’ve found lots of debt letters that he’s lied about to me. I don’t know what’s going on with him half the time and when I ask, I get told off for snooping or it’s made out to be my fault. I’m so tired of it, but I have no savings and feel like I have nowhere to go. If I leave, I need to move jobs. I love my job. I love the area. But I can’t afford to be down here alone. Equally, I cannot mentally keep putting myself through this life with him. What do I do?